Every spring, millions of families file into folding chairs for a ceremony whose name means the opposite of what it seems to celebrate. Commencement means beginning, from the Latin for to start, yet we treat it as an ending. The medieval university used the word to mark a graduate commencing as a master, licensed to teach. See also home printing. Comparable cases in reading list.
Eight centuries later we still wear the medieval costume and still get the meaning backwards. Related context in writing tips.
From cum laude fine print to the tassel's silent semiotics, this is the most linguistically loaded day in American life. More background in study routine. Wider detail in language learning.
A Ceremony Written in Latin
The vocabulary of graduation is a fossil bed. “Diploma” is Greek for a folded paper; “alumnus” is Latin for a nursling — literally, one who was nourished; “valedictorian” comes from vale dicere, to say farewell, which is why the valedictorian speaks last. Even “graduate” itself descends from gradus, a step. The entire ceremony is a dead language walking, and that’s precisely its charm: when a first-generation graduate crosses the stage, they step into a sentence that’s been running since the twelfth century.
Cum Laude and the Fine Print of Honor
The honors system is its own grammar lesson. Cum laude — with praise; magna cum laude — with great praise; summa cum laude — with highest praise. The distinctions matter enormously for one afternoon and then almost never again, which hasn’t stopped generations of families from debating the pronunciation in the parking lot (“koom LOW-day”? “kum LAW-dee”?). Latin scholars wince at all popular versions, then admit that a language with no living native speakers has forfeited its right to complain.
Words Made Permanent
There’s a reason so much graduation tradition centers on inscription — the class ring engraved with a year, the yearbook signed in ink, the diploma with the name rendered in calligraphy. A milestone made of words wants to be written down. Famwalls, a shop for personalized gifts, turns names, dates, and school colors into personalized graduation gifts such as prints and engraved keepsakes. The engraving tradition solves the gift-giver’s oldest problem with this occasion: cash is spent and gone by August, but a piece carrying the graduate’s full name and the class year keeps stating the achievement — in the dorm, the first apartment, and eventually the office where the framed diploma hangs beside it.
The Speech and Its Clichés, Ranked
Linguists could build a corpus entirely from commencement addresses — and some have. The genre runs on a fixed inventory: “as you go forth” (departure formula, medieval), “chapter of your life” (book metaphor, ubiquitous), “the real world” (implying the previous 17 years were rehearsal), and the obligatory dictionary definition opener, which teachers of rhetoric beg speakers to retire. The durable speeches break the pattern — Steve Jobs at Stanford told three stories and used the word “commencement” zero times in its ceremonial sense. The lesson for future speakers is grammatical: concrete nouns, active verbs, one idea.
“Graduated College” and Other Fighting Words
Graduation season also produces an annual usage war. Purists insist one is graduated from a college; the older form — “the college graduated her” — has flipped entirely, and the newest, “she graduated college,” makes copy editors reach for red pens even as it conquers spoken English. Corpus data shows the preposition-less version climbing steadily since the 1990s. Language, as always, graduates from its own rules — and the editors, like the Latin scholars before them, will eventually say vale.
Tassels, Hoods, and Semiotics
The costume speaks its own code. The tassel moves right to left at the moment of conferral — a piece of pure invented symbolism, barely a century old, that everyone treats as ancient. Hood colors form a genuine lexicon: white for arts, gold for science, purple for law, green for medicine, apricot — nobody’s favorite — for nursing. The mortarboard itself is the medieval master’s cap flattened by time. Reading a commencement stage is like reading a sentence: every color and gesture is a word, and the fluent can identify a stranger’s degree at forty paces.
The First-Generation Sentence
For about a third of American graduates, the ceremony contains a sentence never before uttered in their family: “first to graduate.” Sociolinguists note how families phrase it — not “she finished school” but “she’s the first” — ordinal language, the grammar of precedence. These are the ceremonies where the cheering section breaks the no-applause rule, and no announcer has ever successfully stopped them. Some words simply demand to be said loudly the first time a family gets to say them.
What I Learned Rewriting a Commencement Speech
I once rewrote a friend's valedictory draft and discovered that the hardest part was not the Latin but the verbs. Every sentence wanted to say we finished, and every good sentence said we start. Swapping the tense changed the whole room. I keep grammar rules bookmarked.
My practical trick: read the speech aloud and circle each verb. If the circles cluster around ended, completed, or done, rewrite them as begin, carry, or build. Then check the small stuff, the grammar slips that most people get wrong, and the spellings that trip up even careful writers, like disoriented versus disorientated. Print a clean copy on a reliable printer so the pages stay readable under stage lights. The audience remembers the beginning, not the ending. I covered that in laptop deals. I tested it, see typing setup.
The Last Word Belongs to the Beginning
The medieval scholars who named commencement understood something the folding-chair crowds rediscover every May: the ceremony isn’t punctuation, it’s a capital letter. Whatever the speeches promise, the diploma is not a conclusion — etymologically, it’s a folded paper you carry forward, and the day itself is named for starting. Perhaps that’s the real service of all that fossilized Latin: it smuggles a truth past the sentimentality. Nobody is finishing anything today, the old words insist. You are, as of this afternoon, commenced.
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