The cost of living crisis is causing couples in England and Wales to delay divorce, as financial pressures make separation increasingly unaffordable. New figures from the Office for National Statistics (ONS) reveal that the average marriage ending in divorce now lasts 13 years—the longest since records began in 1963.
Rising Costs Keep Unhappy Couples Together
Legal experts say the cost of living crisis is a major factor keeping unhappy couples together. Rebecca Aston-Jones, a senior associate at Clarke Willmott, explains: “One of the main factors discouraging people from pursuing a divorce is the significant financial pressure that comes with establishing and maintaining two separate households.”
Inflation, driven by geopolitical tensions, has pushed up the cost of rent, mortgages, and childcare. As a result, many couples find the prospect of separation financially daunting and choose to stay married despite unhappiness.
Divorce Rates and Marriage Duration
The ONS data shows that divorces are declining from their peak in the 1980s-2000s, when they reached 150,000 a year. In 2025, there were 105,002 divorces in England and Wales, including 102,879 opposite-sex couples and 2,123 same-sex couples—the highest number for same-sex couples since same-sex marriage was legalised.
The average marriage duration before divorce has steadily increased, from a low of 8.9 years in 1985 to 13 years in 2025. This trend suggests that couples are either working harder to stay together or simply cannot afford to part ways.
Financial Implications of Delaying Divorce
While delaying divorce might provide short-term financial relief, it can have long-term consequences. Couples may miss opportunities to rebuild their lives independently, and unresolved conflicts can impact mental health. Moreover, asset values and financial circumstances can change, complicating future settlements.
It's crucial for couples considering divorce to seek professional financial and legal advice early. Understanding your options can help you make informed decisions that align with your long-term goals.
Comparison: Average Marriage Duration Before Divorce
| Year | Average Marriage Duration (Years) |
|---|---|
| 1985 | 8.9 |
| 2025 | 13.0 |
Key Takeaways
- The cost of living crisis is a primary reason couples delay divorce.
- Average marriage duration before divorce hit a record 13 years in 2025.
- Divorce rates have declined from their peak in the 1980s-2000s.
- Same-sex divorces reached their highest level since legalisation.
- Financial pressures can lead to long-term emotional and financial consequences.
FAQ
Why are couples delaying divorce?
Why are couples delaying divorce?
Many couples are delaying divorce due to the financial strain of maintaining two separate households amid the cost of living crisis.
What is the average length of marriage before divorce?
What is the average length of marriage before divorce?
As of 2025, the average marriage ending in divorce lasted 13 years, the longest since records began in 1963.
How many divorces occurred in England and Wales in 2025?
How many divorces occurred in England and Wales in 2025?
There were 105,002 divorces in 2025, including 102,879 opposite-sex couples and 2,123 same-sex couples.