Halloween is looming, and this year I'm ditching my cynicism and getting busy with the pumpkins. Darker nights are drawing in, there's a hint of a chill in the air, and the supermarket's seasonal aisles are groaning with spooky paraphernalia. Every year about now, I tell myself I'm going to get my hands on a pumpkin and bake a pie like the ones my mum would make with us when we were little.
The Lost Magic of Halloween
Halloween wasn't a huge deal in our house, and neither was baking, but I hold warm memories of helping my mum go through the steps that led us to one delicious latticed pumpkin pie and one ugly jack o'lantern that we would display in the window with pride. As I got older, Halloween became an excuse to ride around on my bike looking for trouble or going to parties wearing risque outfits under the guise of them being "costumes".
Now, along with that proliferation of Halloween tat in the shops – mountains of plastic ghosts and witches, destined for landfill – cafe chains try to exploit my olfactory memory with pumpkin spice in every product. Simple magic has been lost, life has moved on and I realise I've never followed through on making that pie.
Creating New Traditions with Toddlers
Now I'm a mum to twin toddlers, which means my hands are full – as strangers constantly remind me in the street – but I'm finding myself inclined to create some magic around this dark time of the year, especially at this dark time in the world. Never one to miss an educational moment, my mum would teach us that Halloween wasn't just about candy and costumes; it was about community, creativity, and the joy of making something with your own hands.
So this year, I'm determined to break the cycle of cynicism. I've already bought two pumpkins – one for baking, one for carving. The twins are too young to wield a knife, but they can help scoop out the seeds and squish the pumpkin flesh. It'll be messy, chaotic, and probably not Instagram-perfect, but it will be ours.
Why Pumpkin Pie Matters
Baking a pumpkin pie from scratch is a ritual. It starts with selecting the right pumpkin – not the giant carving kind, but a sugar pumpkin or pie pumpkin. Then you roast it, scoop out the flesh, puree it, and mix it with spices that fill the house with warmth. The lattice crust is fiddly, but that's the point: it's a labour of love.
Halloween Then vs. Now: A Comparison
| Aspect | Then (Childhood) | Now (Parenthood) |
|---|---|---|
| Pumpkin | One jack o'lantern | Two: one for pie, one for carving |
| Costumes | Risque outfits | Adorable toddler costumes |
| Focus | Parties and trouble | Family memories and magic |
| Attitude | Cynical | Enthusiastic |
Key Takeaways for a Meaningful Halloween
- Embrace imperfection: Your jack o'lantern doesn't need to be a masterpiece; the process is what counts.
- Involve your kids: Even toddlers can help with simple tasks like scooping seeds.
- Skip the plastic tat: Invest in reusable decorations or make your own.
- Bake from scratch: The smell of pumpkin pie is worth the effort.
- Create rituals: Repeat traditions year after year to build anticipation.
FAQ
What type of pumpkin is best for baking?
Sugar pumpkins or pie pumpkins are best for baking because they are smaller, sweeter, and less stringy than the large carving pumpkins.
How can I involve toddlers in Halloween preparations?
Toddlers can help scoop pumpkin seeds, stir batter, and choose costume accessories. Keep tasks simple and supervise closely.
Why is Halloween important for family bonding?
Halloween offers a chance to create shared rituals, spark creativity, and build lasting memories through activities like carving pumpkins and baking together.
So here's to ditching cynicism and getting busy with the pumpkins. This Halloween, I'm trading plastic tat for pumpkin spice, and parties for pie. And maybe, just maybe, I'll finally master that lattice crust.